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18f
So, I broke up with my boyfriend the other day cuz we weren't going anywhere, we don't have simular interests and it is hard to make time to see eachother. All we would do when we were together is watch movies or he'd watch football, cuddle and we'd kiss, thats about it. So I talked to him and said "being friends was easier" cuz lately we hadn't been able to see eachother and he was getting kind of frustrated. He said: "I agree. I was thinking the same thing for the last few weeks, but after last seeing you, things seemed better so I thought I'd give it a little longer". I was like, wow... I felt the same way. I had wanted to break up with him for a while, but I didn't want to so soon. We were together for five months. Anyhow, then he seemed kind of upset and I explained "it was just that you had your interests and I had mine". He said "Yeah I know what you mean". "It was fun while it lasted". What did he mean by that? Did he not have any feelings the whole time??

it just means that he feels like its going to end no matter what and that he had a great time. He expects it to end so he feels like well what we had was great, but its gonna end now.

I think he did have feelings. but now that you guys agreed to be friends, he feels like the relationship will obviously end and that what you 2 had was fun, but now its going to end.

if you're still confused about it, ask him what he means by this. i'm sure he will clarify it for you.

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