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Played volleyball for over 10 years, also a coach. I love to try new things. Currently I'm trying the new sport of tennis and learning about my passion of photography.

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So, I am 18f and I have a boyfriend that is 18 as well. He lives about 40 minutes from me so I like it when I have time to drive to his house or for him to drive to my house. The one thing I wish we could do more, is sleep at eachothers houses. He has never slept over at my house, but I have slept at his house about four times now. We have been dating for about four months, I have known him for seven. His parents don't want him sleeping over at a girls house or a girl sleeping at their house near eachother. The first few times I was at his place we were three floors apart and then the next few times we were on the same floor, but in separate rooms. I just think, it is not like we are having sex, because we never have. Also, I would hope that his parents trust us or should I say me. We just want to spend more time with eachother and by being able to stay over and not have to drive home late at night, we can lay beside eachother and talk/cuddle/fall asleep together. Its just easier and more enjoyable, you know? What are some things we can do to make our time together more valuable? I really wish his parents would let us stay over at eachothers so that we could spend the whole weekend together and not just one afternoon. He is in Uni and we both have jobs. Please help me with some ideas, thanks!

well the only thing i can really think of is having a plan out day. basically a day where you plan the entire day from start to finish and dont let any interruptions come between you 2. for example- 6am breakfast at IHOP or make your own pancakes. 12pm- zoo. 7pm movie etc etc etc.

i dont really know if that helps, but its an idea :)

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(Rating: 5) Thanks for the idea, I'll see what I can do :p
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