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Q: I need a pros and cons list with regards to admitting a crush. Opinions and other comments are also appreciated. C:
Background:
There's this guy who I've liked for months at school, but nothing has happened to make us "more than friends." Arguably, this seems to mean that he is not interested, but the obvious "signs" of his crush cannot be ignored. "Hinting" at my feelings hasn't worked so far 1. because I'm a terrible flirt 2. because he is dense when it comes to dating/has never had a girlfriend. Still, there is no way for me to guarantee that the crush is mutual. I'm willing to tell him in person, but, should I?
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Hi,
Pro's of admitting your crush;
1. He might feel the same way.
2. You will finally have told the truth and will feel better.
Con's of admitting your crush;
1. He might not feel the same way.
2. Alot of people will find out you like him.
Crushes are a hard thing to figure out. Just like love.
I think you should look for the signs. Take your time to see how he acts towards you. If you can't figure out how he feels, confront him. :) GOOD LUCK!
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Thanks. I did confront him, finally. He doesn't like me, so thankfully I know now! Imagine if I had gone all this year and next wondering if he did and pining over him. It might be little awkward and I won't pretend I'm not disappointed, but at least it's no longer my secret to bare.
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Hi,
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Member Since: November 6, 2010 Answers: 54 Last Update: November 18, 2010 Visitors: 2440
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