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Alright, so my boyfriend and I of 11 months we were having phone sex, and apparently I was getting to loud at it and my father..which was next door he called attention to my mom, and after I got off the phone, she started yelling at me over it, and asking why I changed my underwear, and I was utterly embarrassed, so when mu bf called back he felt bad, and he said it was his fault and he would tell her we weren't doing anything, so he did..but than afterwords my mom kept bitching saying " I know thats not the truth" and she says I best tell the truth, it will make things better so I decided to tell her the truth. Now its the next day and she won't stop saying " I'm disappointed in you." " Thats so slutty to do." All those things. Also we were planning , sense my boy friend doesn't have such a great home life, his grand mother is all he has and she leaves him for months with no moeny and sense my boyfriend is a senior after this year he was going to move in. Now she says not until shes trusts us again. Now I don't know what to do now? All this is my fault according to her, my boyfriend and I were just expressing are feelings for each other, we don't have sex..we feel it wasn't anything bad. What is it that you guys think? Now I feel horrible, and embarrassed. :/ (link)
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Honestly, I'd tell your mother to shut up about it and be thankful you're talking about sex instead of having it.
I mean, we've got daily questions from girls 13-15 who got pregnant, and you're here asking about phone sex. On the scale of 1-10 of how much you could destroy your life with the things you're doing, you rate a one only because your parents react badly to it.
Be polite, but express that you don't want to hear how disappointed she is because it's not her business when you're not doing anything that could harm your life and that her disgust just proves she's having a really hard time seeing you as someone who's trying to grow into an adult instead of just a kid who needs to be protected from the world.
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