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This is for guys, but if a women has asked their boyfriend or husband the same thing and can answer this, feel free to answer too. Why do men watch porn if they are in a relationship?

Men are more visual than women.
We tend to get aroused at the mere SIGHT of an attractive woman, whereas women tend to be attracted to personality traits.
This is why men watch porn. Afterward, there's no cuddling necessary. This isn't fantastic for relationships, but if it's only happening occasionally and isn't interfering with your relationship, don't worry about it.
Don't assume that because someone you love watches porn that you aren't satisfying them. This isn't necessarily true.
If this is bothering you, just talk about it with him. Don't get mad or accusatory, though. And don't bring up his porn watching during an argument.

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(Rating: 5) Thanks! I am not bothered by him watching porn, just merely curious as to why.
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