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so my boyfriend and i have been going out for about three months and on friday he tells me that he's going out with friends for the weekend so he thinks something is gonna happen( meaning he might mess around with another chick) and he says if anything happens he will be honest with me about it so i'm like wtf is he being honest saying he cares or is he just taking me for granted
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What he really means is "I like you but I still want to have sex with other girls. I'm just letting you know now so when you finally get fed up with my cheating I can remind you that I told you what I was gonna do from the start, and then you'll seem like the crazy one because I never said I'd be faithful"
Dump this guy. He IS being honest with you. He's telling you he's a cheater. Don't waste one more minute on him. You may be missing somebody truly fantastic (and faithful) because you're wasting so much energy on this jerk.


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