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F/16 I have this amazing boyfriend who I've been dating for 2 weeks. I like him, but only when I'm with him. I partially think it's because I'm still hung up on my ex. All I can think about is my ex, and how I want to be with him. Just a few months ago I was with my ex, until some things happened that screwed us up. Now I'm dating this other kid, and he's my first boyfriend since my ex 2 years ago.
I do like my current boyfriend, but when I'm with him and we're alone things are sexual and I don't like that. Whenever I see him in school all I can think about is wanting to be with my ex instead of him. He's such a nice guy, and I do like him, it's just I know I would rather be with my ex and that's all that would make me happy. I sometimes feel if I could just get my ex to actually reject me then I would be able to put my feelings aside and would realize how good I have it now.
I don't want to lose my boyfriend, but I just feel like it's the wrong thing to stay with him while I have such strong feelings for someone else. He knows about my ex, and how I used to feel, I don't know if he's aware I never lost those feelings, but..he knows about him. So it's not like my feelings are a complete secret.
I just don't know what I should do, should I stay with my boyfriend? Try to get back with my ex? Talk to my ex and realize he doesn't want me? Just back off from boys all together until i figure things out? Idk, I just need some sort of help. (link)
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Join the club!
I made this mistake once I dated this guy for a short period had a lot of feelings for him and then was in another relationship which was shortly after. During the relationship I was in I was thinking of the guy that I dated for a short period and how much I missed and how much I wanted to be with him. My heart was with another guy and that wasn't fair to my boyfriend at the time. You need to be honest with your boyfriend and yourself and move on.
Now as for your ex...why is he your ex? Exes are exes for a reason and maybe its not meant to be. He's always going to be on your mind but you can't compare a guy to him because in your mind they won't match to him. You should ssit out from the dating and scene and think about what you want or look for in a guy. Take sometime and think about yourself...be selfish! At the end of the day you need to listen to your own heart but think with your head as well! Good luck!
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thank you! probably the best advice i've gotten so far cause you understand. me and my ex broke up because of a stupid fight that caused me to cheat and miss my single life. biggest mistake EVER. but thank you very much :)
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