Hey everyone! The names Melissa and I'm just dying to help everyone out.
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Age: 21
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Hi, Ive broken up with my boyfriend recently (about 2 months ago) and im having a really hard time dealing with it. He has a drinking problem and is not very "trustworthy" when it comes to faithfulness. Of course he's begged for second (and third) chances, all which ive given to him, and now he wants another one. Im being firm by saying no, and now he is turning it around on me saying he's "tried" and thats it. All he ever wants to do is "SAY" he's sorry. He never wants to "DO" anything to show me. He said nothing he ever says is good enough for me. Please help :( (link)
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Seems to me like you've answered your own question. You've given him MORE than enough chances, and he keeps messing up. Hes a user. The more someone says they are sorry, the less they mean it.
I would just move on from this boy. Find someone else to spend time with. You'll find that there are much better guys out there, who will want to treat you well.
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thank you....and as hard a pill as it is to swallow, I do believe you are right. I HAVE answered my own question. I guess most of its about he knows allll the right things to say to win me back and then when I dont give in, he gets really mad and blames it on me. I know he's no good....I know this all, I just cant seem to get to the point of cutting ties! And I need to!
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