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Well i used to be really really jealous and me and my boyfriend of four years broke up because of it, because he kept lying to not hurt me, and it bothered me when he watched porn and stuff, but later he begged me back and he said he loved me & wanted me back. So now that we were together i asked him not to look at porn and if he wanted pictures or something i would send him some and even though i'm trying to get un-jealous like before i wouldn't let him go out without me(yeah i was psycho lol) but now i let get him get away with a lot but i still have jealous thoughts every once in a while, so the day before i wanted my moms number that he had on his phone and i had just gotten a new phone so i asked him for it and he didn't want to give it to me so i got suspicions? And i was like are you doing something wrong? Later he admitted he had porn on it, and i got kinda upset in my head, and later i couldn't stop thinking about it and i was sad and basically said told him i know it's because they look better or you fantasize about other girls but i was saying it not asking it.It was really supposed to be a rhetorical question. And he said well i do fantasize about other girls cause you're the only one i've been with, ( i told him he wasn't supposed to answer and he said he didn't know) and that hurt me really bad and i was like so you'd go with another girl and do her and he said "i just want to" and i was like so you do want to, and he said yeah. Like is that normal? Should i be mad or break up with him? Like now it disgusts me cause we're not even married like i know that happens to married people that have been together for a long time, but us i'm young i have the same body as the porn stars except without the fake big boobs mine are real so i just don't know how to react or what to do. i Just hung up on him cause without saying anything cause this happened right before he went into work so he didn't call back.
Please just tell me your opinions. (link)
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Hi, Im a girl and i watch porn. My boyfriend does as well but we dont watch it togeather.
There is nothing wrong with porn, it has been around as long as there has been people. Not just on film but drawings, and carvings. Nudity and sex have been apart of peoples cultures and lives for thousands of years.
Yes its wrong that he told you he wants to have sex with other girls. But its not wrong to watch porn. Guys are visualy excited. They like watching sex, as much as they like having sex.
I dont know if you've ever watched porn, but i would suggest you check it out. You might find that its not as bad as you think.
Talk to him, and find out if he needs to take a break to get over these feelings he's having. If he feels the need to sleep with other girls just because your the only one hes slept with, then hes a waste of time.
But heres a word of advice, wether or not they tell you, EVERY guy watches porn. So good luck finding one who doesnt.
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Thank you, porn actually disgusts me though. And yeah the thought of me being with another guy disgusts me too but i guess guys and girls are different?
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