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female / 17 okay sorry if this is long
okay so i kinda still have feelings for my ex i still love him but he is a big asshole and i dnt even no why i love him but i just do.. i want to get over him ASAP! not even kidding i'm so done with him and i know that i will never put myself in the situation that i was in again we went out for about four months anyways so i want to cut him off completly but i want him to feel bad and feel like if he needs me back i want him to think well damn that girl really did love me... so i have a plan when we were together he wrote me these letters that said how much he loves me..and i still have them should i just walk up to him and just be like here cross my name out nd put ur girls or i was going to say here you go i guess everything you told me was a lie and ripp it up in front of his face should i do that? i mean i dnt see any other way for him to want me back soo what should i do?

Just leave it, i had a similiar problem.
I was with a guy for 9 months, he broke up with me because he was going to "college." 2 months later i see him at a school dance with another girl, his girlfriend. I had to gather my strength and ignore him.
Well 1sh thing karma is a bitch, his gf broke up with him. It was that new years, a year later, that he apologized to me and said i didnt diserve what he did. Then he wanted to have my phone number.
I felt so proud of myself because i said no thanks, my bf wont like it. Thats when he realized he had a good thing, and he recognized his lost.

It might seem like forever at first, but you'll move on :]

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