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I am in a very serious commitment with my fiance. I have been through a lot of love problems and learned from my expeirence. If you need love life help or anything dealing with relationships, i'm your guy.
Gender: Male
Location: Terre Haute Indiana
Occupation: chef
Age: 19
Member Since: October 28, 2009
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I don't know what's wrong with me.Lately I feel alone all the time.I don't have a lot of friends,but the ones I have are a gift from God and they are always there to help me and hear me out.But it seems it doesn't matter,I still feel alone.I don't have a boyfriend right now,which really bothers me...and I know it shouldn't...but since I'm single I feel unattractive,invisible,as if I'm boring...I also know it's stupid that I only feel beautiful when I have a boyfriend,even though people tell me I am and I don't need a bf to prove me that.I feel as if no one is ever going to notice me and I'm gonna end up single for the rest of my life.This makes me sound shallow,I am aware of it.But that's just the way it is and the way I feel... (link)
I understand. it's hard being a teenager. I personally don't have a lot of friends, and the one i do have happens to be my fiance. Be thankful that you have friends to talk to and that will listen, its a gift that most people take forgrannit. It shouldn't matter if you are beautiful. everyone has something beautiful about them. IF you get a boyfriend because he thinks your beautiful, then you won't know whether or not he likes you for you. I'm not saying that beauty is a bourden, but when you are beautiful, people tend to be around you for just that reason. your 16 sweetie. Your not going to find that guy who is perfect for you. Love will find you when the time is right. I know that sounds like a bunch of bull, but i had the same thought process when i was your age, and i turned 19 and found the woman that i have always been searching for. It will find you.


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Hopefully.I think you know how it feels to want everything right now and not want to wait,these days I feel like I won't get to live long enough to accomplish everything so I'm impatient,which is kinda stupid I know,but I guess it comes with being a teenager.Thanks for your advice :)




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