Hello my names Lili. I am 20. I am college student. I honestly love people. I am a communications major. I am the go to girl for advice among my friends. You need help ask me and I will do my best to give you advice. We all need advice every once in a while. My goal is that the advice I give you will help you with whatever problem you have. I cant guarantee a perfect answer. But I can guarantee that I will try to help you.
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Age: 20
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Hi 8)
ok i have a huge problem and its been on my mind for ages basically theres this boy i really like but he doesnt know me. he doesnt even know i exist. i see him sometimes but he hasnt ever seen me. ive had a crush on him for 5 and a half years now and i really want to meet him i hardly ever see him now only sometimes, and im always with parents when i do see him. i think im in love please help i need to find a way to speak to him, hes been on my mind a lot lately and i cant eat, think or study please help
thanks in advance (im 19)
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Hi there!
I honestly been there before. I was twelve when I met him. He knew who I was because of a mutual friend, but we kind of talk, but nothing more. I had the biggest crush on him, but we were never more then anything. Then as we got into high school he ignored me. But I really wanted him. Like I wanted him to talk to me and get to know each other. He was always in my head. It been like this till Junior year in high school. I dated around and stuff, but like I really wanted him. Then finally one day, I had enough. There are other guys, who are great guys, who talked to me, listened to me and made me laugh. Now we are in college, we do our own thing. This is what I learned, don't waste your time on someone who don't give you the time of the day. There are other great guys out there who would give you time of the day. See, the way I see it is, he missed out not me. I now have a guy who I am talking to and getting to know who respects me, likes me for who I am. He treats me so well. So the point is, don't waste your time pinning over a guy who don't give you a time of a day. You deserve someone who will give you their time, and you deserve someone who pays attention to you, and truly respects you.
But, if you really want to go talk to him, then go up to him and introduce yourself. Or if you both are in a place somewhere, just start a conversation, like if you see him wearing a t- shit of a band you like, say something like hey, I see you like (Name of band). I love them. or something along those lines to start a conversation. And hey maybe you guys might have some connection. So I hope my advice to you helps. But if after the conversation and nothing comes out of it, then move on. Don't waste your time.
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