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I am seeing this woman and she's married. I knew she was married before we started having the affair. At first I didn't feel bad at all since it's her decision to cheat on her husband but now I'm feeling a little weird. She insists on talking about their relationship after our bedroom romp and I don't like it. She's only sex to me and it seems like she doesn't get that. I kind of want to drop her from the scene but to be honest she's really pretty good in the sack. What should I do and how should I handle this sort of thing? (link)
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Wow. Really? You should leave and stop using her, you selfish sack of shit.
People like you disgust me. Are you really so hard up for decent sex (and so commitment phobic) that you're willing to put effort and thought into continuing to use some poor woman?
Yeah, it's her decision to cheat. It's your decision to be the object she cheats with. You're still making a fucking choice to screw over someone you've never met.
Be honest. Tell her you don't give a shit and don't want to hear it. Hopefully she'll wake up after that. It's really the only decent action you can take from this point, so that hopefully she gets the message that cheating isn't the way to get what she wants and losers who are willing to cheat with her aren't going to fulfill the needs she's missing.
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I dont appreciate the "you selfish sack of shit" part. Really. It was completely unnecessary. I know you're angry but come on. You can't possibly look at what you wrote and think you gave good advice to somebody who needs it, even if you don't agree with their previous actions. Get real here, man. You were better off just not answering if it made you that mad.
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