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My boyfriend wants me to give him a blow job and I really do want to but I feel weird every time I try to do it. It's not that I feel bad about it but I feel like I'm not doing a good enough job. We've talked about it a lot and he's even given me "tips" on how to do it right. I still feel weird. I want to make him happy and I love him a lot. I over think this entire thing a lot and even have had dreams of it. It's something I DO want to do. How can I get over this hang-up or whatever you want to call it? It's horrible because I can work him up to it and then...I just...can't go all the way through with it. It just feels too weird then. :\ (link)
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You may WANT to do it, but maybe you're just not ready. Unless you're absolutely comfortable with it, then it's not gonna work. I would wait a while and try it another time in the future when you're more comfortable with him. There's nothing wrong with saying that you're uncomfortable or don't know what you're doing. However, if you're going to go through with it, then I suggest that you work your way up to it. Maybe you can use your hand for a while and when you really feel like you're comfortable doing it, then just go for it. Guys really aren't picky about things like that. As long as you don't bite, I'm sure he'll love it. You don't have to WOW him the first time. I think it's something that you can improve on. Do it once and then ask him what you can try to make it even better for him. But just remember that you don't have to do anything that you don't want to do. Don't feel bad because you don't do it when he wants it. He should be glad that you're even considering doing it at all! lol
Good luck! Be safeeeee.
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