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Last Update: April 20, 2014
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17/f

So this is going to make me seem like a 10 year old whiny little girl, but its really bothering me, so be as honest as you want to be, i need it.

In march, i dated this guy for THREE WEEKS. Not long at ALL. And it wasn't even like we were friends or anything for very long before that. I really liked him a lot. he was super attractive, really fun and i just loved his personality. Unfortunately, he ended things because we rushed into things and they weren't working out like we planned. When he did this (at the time), i agreed we should just be friends. Well for about two weeks after we broke up, i was kind of depressed and i cried all the time about it. But we said we could still be friends, so i was hopeful that we'd get back together. But then, for about a month after we broke up, we didn't speak at all and it was incredibly awkward. Over the summer, we talked online a few times and stuff, and i realized that i still have feelings for him. It's been MONTHS and im still not over a guy i barely knew. I feel SO pathetic. Why do i care so much? What the hell!?

thanks for anything :) (link)
Try to talk to him more and actually be friends instead of aquaintances, maybe you'll get closer and get back together. If you care so much maybe it's because he's a really great guy. You're not pathetic, I'm in love with someone 2 years younger than me, and he's avoiding me and he's been playing me for a fool, I'm the pathetic one. :3 If you're meant to be, you will be together someday! :3


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thank you so much! :). and best of luck with your situation too!




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