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Q: So me and my ex go way back...a year ago in february. So like feb 09. Anyways, we were a thing for a while, until he turned around and chose my best friend over me. Which of course crushed me. And then 3 months later he begged for me back for 2 weeks until finally i forgave him and started dating him a month later. After 2 months of dating we broke up, because I had just lost feelings ever since things went bad. We haven't been very close since, and it's always been kind of awkward around him. I'm not sure what to do, because I want to be close with him. I want to be able to talk to him again without their being any tension.
The truth is, I still kind of have feelings for him...It's really hard because I know he's way over me, but he tells his best friend (who's also one of my good friends) that when we dated, he really cared about me. I just wish it was the same. And I don't know how to approach him..
I guess I'm just wondering what I should do? How do you view my situation? I'm just really confused /: And I want him to be around again. I miss him.
I'd appreciate anyone's help, I'll rate you all a 5 just for a simple input. Thanks.
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love is never a smooth path. my best adice is this: sit down and talk to him, if he will talk to you and just tell him holw you feel...tell him you want to go slow but you also want to be a part in his life; maybe not a major player right now, but that may come in time...don't push, don't rush; bottom line, if it's meant to be, it will be...but, if he says no, accept that and move on( I know, easier said then done)...good luck, tAke care...
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i majored in psychology for several years so am pretty good with human nature, relationships, etc and i love to help people. Sometimes it just clicks when an answer is given, maybe worded a different way and u figure it out...drop me a question, leave a note, i'd like to hear from you...take care, and thank you for asking.
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Gender: Male Location: florida Occupation: secuirty Age: 40 Member Since: July 31, 2010 Answers: 51 Last Update: September 13, 2010 Visitors: 4888
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