Member Since: September 4, 2010
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Last Update: September 4, 2010
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One night at a party, and I was running around outside with my friends until i tripped and i lost my necklace. I asked a boy to help me look in the woods for it, because that's where I lost it. While we were in the woods, he said "What do I get if I find it?" and I said, you'll find out when you find it! And sure enough he found my necklace, then he asked for his "reward" and I said he gets nothing but a thank you.
So school started this week, and today a boy walked up to me and said "HEY, if i find your necklace will you give ME head?" and I was really confused. Until one of my close friends came up to me and asked me if i blew a kid who found my necklace at a party. Of course I said no.. because i didn't! And people in school keep bringing it up.
I guess I'm just asking if you have any tips on how to cope with it? Ignore it? Etc.
Thankssss. (link)
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first of all, that jerk needs to feel bad for what he did. how to do this? nicely request a conference with your counselor to tell him/her what happened, and how it's having repercussions for you around school. see if they can set up some "conflict resolution" between you, so he can apologize in person and say that he will put the rumor to rest. tell your friends it didn't happen, and have them spread the word that the guy is a loser who spreads rumors because he can't seem to get any on his own. if anyone asks about it, tell them exactly what happened. it's honestly a pretty terrible story that he should feel embarassed to have repeated.
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Rating: 5
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the only problem with that is that he doesn't go to my school! but the rest is do-able. thanks :)
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