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Q: 19M
Ok, so the first question is easy really. Though it's something I've kinda worried about for a while about myself. To put it simply, I prefer to be friends with girls, perhaps date them, over sleeping with them. I'd rather stay in for a movie and cuddle than have sex. Does that make me weird, for a straight guy? None of my guy friends see what I like about it. (But my female friends tend to love it haha)
My main part to the question is, I see this aspect of me ruining future relationships. I tend to have a couple of female friends at all times, who I often spend an evening with alone. We might go out together, or watch a movie, or whatever. Nothing happens, we're just friends. At the moment I'm single. I worry though that when I have a girlfriend, she'll be always jealous of the fact that i'm alone with other girls (Because I thought about it, and I don't want to stop haning out with friends the way I do because some girl doesn't want me too). I do think that this will make it incredibly hard for me to start a relationship. When the trust isn't built yet, how do you persuade her there's nothing going on?
Any help would be appreciated, but don't insult me, I get enough of that already.
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you are normal and mature; here's a secret...women will judge you by how well you trreat your female friends and how many of them you have that are platonic...there is nothing wrong with not having a strong sex drive; rememer the old saying, sex is over rated and under apprciated(my saying, and i am old); point is, you worry too much what your friends will think or even do think...you need to go to the beat of your own drum and if night's in aree what floats your boat, then anchor's aweigh my friend....good luck; you'll be just fine...
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The advice is good, but I can't not care what people think. I'm one of those people who have to make everyone happy, you know? Thanks anyway :)
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i majored in psychology for several years so am pretty good with human nature, relationships, etc and i love to help people. Sometimes it just clicks when an answer is given, maybe worded a different way and u figure it out...drop me a question, leave a note, i'd like to hear from you...take care, and thank you for asking.
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Gender: Male Location: florida Occupation: secuirty Age: 40 Member Since: July 31, 2010 Answers: 51 Last Update: September 13, 2010 Visitors: 4887
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