Name is Layne, age is 17, occupation is babysitter. still answering questions on here even after 3 years is awesome, right? no, just proves i don't have a life. so. if you have a question, feel free to ask it on here or you can IM me on my screenname. i can answer most questions about the categories i have listed. i don't know much about sickness or physical health, or stuff to wear when your husband just died but the man who killed him, whom you're having an affair with, is going to be at the funeral. :) have a wonderful day.
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So. My ex boyfriend and I had dated for seven months. Then one morning, he broke up with me in a text message. He said he didn't want to be tied down anymore. He was sixteen at the time, I was fourteen at the time. He's sixteen now, I'm fifteen now. It's been three months since the break up. While we were dating things were pretty bad. He pressured me into a looot of stuff. Like fingering. He physically forced me to give him a hj. And he made me feel guilty for months until I finally gave him a blowjob. He dumped me four days after the bj. I was messed up while we were dating... I honestly don't know who that person was. I was totally whipped, and I don't know why I thought anything he did was okay... but I did. Since the split I've realized how bad it was, and I'm a lot stronger. Thing is, after we broke up things were still bad for about a month. He told everyone how far we'd been, saying "she put out. like we made out all the time, and she gave me head." he even spread a rumor that we had sex saying "when I was on top, I thought I was gonnna break her cause she's so tiny. But she let me do wahtever I wanted. I coulda stuck it up the ass if I felt like it." Just stupid, stupid stuff. One day he'd say he wanted me back, the next he'd tell me I was stupid bitch. It was horrible. We stopped talking for a month. Then he apologized. After a shitty relationship, two months of hell, he said he was done being a dick. Then we were okay... I guess. We've been trying out this whole friends thing for about a month. It's been pretty shaky. But now one of our mutual friends has told me that my ex has been talking shit to him. Saying he didn't wanna be around me because I am immature. IIIII am immature. ME. Excuse me??? Immature people do what he did when we were dating. Immature people break up in texts. Immature people break promises and spread stupid rumors. Mature people take all of that shit without ONCE acting back. No revenge. Ever. Mature people look past what's happen and decide to be the bigger person to make things okay. I'm immature??? I don't think so. I'm pissed. The mutual friend has a certain theory about my ex. He says that my ex broke up with me because he was scared of how intense his feelings were getting for me. He says he just says that stuff to cover up how bad he feels about what's happen. That told everyone how far we went/spread those rumors to cover up him hurting about the breakup. And that he says the immature stuff to cover up him wanting to be around me... but I don't think thats it!!! I don't know what to do. Should I bring it up with my ex?? I mean... if we're trying ot be freinds... I don't know. I just don't want to stir shit up... What should I do??? (link)
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uhhh....HELL NO. do NOT bring it up to him. don't even talk to him! he sounds like a total douche. i've been in a situation close to this one before, and trust me, he will NEVER change, no matter what he says. you said at one point he said he was tired of being a dick, right? well, what did he do after that? called you immature. you sound like you're pretty much over him, so it wont be hard for you to just let go and move on with life. tell him you're sick of his shit and want to start enjoying life a bit. you can put it into any words you wish. but my advice to you is drop him immediately. don't text/call/talk anything. he's officially invisible to you.
if you're not completely over him yet, it will be a little hard at first. but it'll get a lot easier, and trust me, you'll feel soooo much better.
good luck and take care.
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yeah... i dunno, i feel like im not all the way over him yet :\ its hard to pretend he's invisible. he goes to my school and hes around me aaall the time since we're a small school. he's the grade above but i still see him everywhere...
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