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Okay, first of all I'm sixteen.

Here is my question: My best friend who is a girl(I'm a guy) asked me a couple of Saturdays ago if I would ever date her. I said yeah sure. Then the Monday of that week she kissed me, and I liked it. We hung out on Wednesday and Friday that week and we kept kissing, Wednesday was probably the most intimate kissing though. And I don't know how I feel about her and I don't think she likes me. But I can't stop thinking of her kiss. It's pissing me off also how she is acting to it. She is being kind of mean to me and telling me she doesn't care anymore and that makes me feel bad. I just want to sort out my feelings because now she thinks I like her, and I honestly don't know because I'm confused. Plus her friend whom I dislike knows I "like" her. And I think my best friend told him. ._.; And I don't want this stupid thing to go further, But I don't want to lose her friendship. Please help.

then you need to sit down with the girl and spill your guts...tell the truth and let the chips fall where they may...like you, she is also confused and conflicted inside as well, and god willing will hear what you tell her.

you will find out in life, some women just like the attention and nothing more to it...life and love is unfair. the good news is, you two did nothing you both may regret later in life so i am proud of you for only 'kissing' and not going further...best of luck...

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