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Ok, so my mum stopped smoking "trees" for a few months. She hasn't been doing it. She is going for a new job. She said she would not smoke even after the test. She took the test. Tonight It is late and I walk past the hall, a breeze rolls through, I cought a scent of "Trees". So I go to the back room, It gets stronger. She is not holding anything but I see the "thing" in the ash tray. I felt like saying something but acted as if I didn't notice. Now I'm really angry, she talked all this krap about how shw wouldn't start again. Now I hope when she gets this job, that she doesn't spend money on it. If she does I'll throw it out when she isn't around. I don't see any reason for me to get in trouble. Her last job she spent money on the same thing and it pisses me the Fu** off when I do well in school. And when I barely get Sh** for christmas they say, "Oh it's the economy", Bullshit theyr'e too busy burning money. I have poor friends whohave more than me. What should I do? and if possible can anyone tell me the average amount of money wasted on "trees" & "snow"? What can I do? I feel like mad now.
Ask her what's more important; a job that pays money, or YOU. Just talk to her and tell her she's being a hypocrite AND is playing with fire, since you never know when you're going to be re-tested........
Speaking in dollars and cents; trees can cost anywhere from $20 to $100+, depending on the amount and how much is used..........as for snow; IT'S $$$$$$$$$$$ and it's STUPID SH!T since it changes a person's behavior, and is DEF not worth the chance of getting 'popped' (caught) during the purchase. She's being selfish; tell her that; she'll deny it but you're smart; tell her everything you just wrote i your question. I'd be pissed right off, as well~~~!!! You have a voice and a say-so in what happens in your family, so don't be afraid to use it. By the way; you're not the only 'kid' who's parents do this; our generation somehow never stopped.....you'd be surprised~
Good Luck, Honey,
xx Rhona
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