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im 14/f and im going into 9th grade. i am embarrassed to go "number 2" in the bathroom. i know everyone does it and i shouldn't be embarrassed, but i can't help it. sometimes there are girls who just stand in the bathroom and talk so it's embarrassing. i asked my mom and she didn't really know what to say. what do i do? i guess you could say i'm regular haha so i have to go every morning :/ and people notice so ugh it's just embarrasing and annoying. sometimes i hold it all day and i know that's probably bad and then i feel bad about it. please be nice thank you for the answers :)

I have the same problem, and living in college in dorms, means you have NO privacy, and there is usually someone in the bathroom, and you don't have the option to hold it until you get home.

What helped me was blasting music on my ipod. You can either play it out loud, or just listen to it through headphones, and it kind of puts you in your own little world and you kind of forget other people are there.

And this might sound silly or even extremely weird, but get a pooping buddy, someone with a sense of humor, and nonjudgemental. Not only does this give you some "emotional support," (if you want to call it that), but if you accidentally... erm... flatulate, you can always pretend your buddy did it, and it takes some embarrassment off of you.

Sure these are some strange tips, but it helped me =)


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(Rating: 4) haha thnx
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