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Well its a long story..me and my relationship with my boyfriend. To me its like a romeo and juliet type of thing. His grandmother doesn't understand my boy friend, at all she doesnt want him to date me. She thinks im trashy? When I'm far from it :,( She was apparently stalking my fb page and my friends, they acutally went as far as to creat an account as lous cousin Cody..but it was really his aunt trying to figure things out about us. So we have to hide were dating, its so stressing and the thought of not being able to call him if I NEED him just scares me. He calls me every chance he gets behind her back, my boy friends the most amazing guy I have ever been with and I miss him so bad..He knows this to, he tells me just to keep strong and to think that we will see each other soon..*I'm going into highschool this year* I'm so stressed..and so depressed right now..i should be happy my birthdays coming up..:/ I've been threw the ringer with this guy, with people starting stuff between us, All i know is that I love my boy friend..and I want to stay strong for him, but I don't know if I have enough courage? What should I do?
14 1/2 f
Hey,
You and your boyfriend really sound like you have something special. Often times parents/grand-parents just feel like no one is good enough for their child/grand-child. You shouldn't take his grand-mother's actions to heart. Continue to be yourself and stand by your boyfriend (This can't be an easy situation for him either, but he's enduring). Eventually, things will get better, and his family will see you for who you truly are. Plus, what will really matter to them in the long run is if your love for him is sincere, and if he's really happy with you. As long as that is clear to them, you all will be okay. You have a good boyfriend. He plans to be with you regardless to what his grand-mother thinks because he knows you and wants you! Just remember to think positive! =)
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