Hi my name is max, im not going to be your typical advice giver on this website. im not going ot tell you everything is going to be ok, or everything will get better because most of the time everything wont be ok, and things wont get better. but i'm here if you ever need to talk about anything.
E-mail: Maxwellarch@aol.com
Gender: Male
Occupation: Student, part time worker.
Age: 18
AIM: maxwellarch
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So, I am 17f and I have never dated anyone. I feel that there are certain types of guys that I really just want to stay away from (liers, cheaters, players, guys that only want sex), basically all the kinds I know. I have met a guy that is sweet, kind, respectful, and loving towards me recently.. the only thing is, I have had a rough childhood (meaning I can take things to the heart, I am careful with who I chose as friends, and I can find it hard to open up to people sometimes), people have backstabbed/lyed to me, and my mom has been through two divorces. My question is how can I become closer to this guy without allowing myself to feel like I am holding back a little. He is understanding, loves me for who I am, and seems interested.. one time he asked if he could kiss me and I let him kiss me on the cheek, but I keep wondering if I should of kissed him on the lips or if that was holding back. I mean whats wrong with a kiss on the lips? I don't know.. do I hold back too much? What can I do to stop feeling like I do?
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Well if your seventeen and like this guy, then you should go for it. you dont want to wait too long and then regret not ever taking the chance with him. secondly i know this because i am a guy, but watch out. there are alot of guys who will pretend to love you and care about you just to get sex. i used to use girls all the time. but if you really do care about the guy, and you honestly think he cares about you then go for it. it's life so you might as well live it. you dont want to wake up 10 years later regretting every thing.
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Yeah... ten years is a long time. I see what you mean, thanks!
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