Hey!!
I'm Lollipop. I'm 15, but I know more than you would think. I've had my share of crap, and now I'm here to answer questions. I orginally joined this site to GET advice, but I've found that I answer more questions than I ask. I have also found that I relate to almost every love life question. Let's just say I had a tough year... So, that's my area of expertise. The one thing that bugs me the most on this site are when people say you're too young to feel what you feel. Screw that. I don't think it matters if you're 15 or 51, you know what you feel. I don't know much about sex because I believe in waiting until marriage, but I know what it's like to be pressured. Ask me something, and I will give you an answer.
xoxo
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hi
im SO close with my ex, that people think were in love.
were on and off
he drives me insane both good and bad.
but i want space from him, see other guys.
and i want to get over him
how do i do this.
a couple of guys at school like me. and i like one of them should i ask him out???
do i ignore my ex, say anything to him
please help me out!
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Dear "EX boyfriend i WANT to get over"
I was in a ver similar situation. My ex and I continued to be close after the breakup, immediatly after the breakup, because he wanted to stay friends. But it's sooo hard to do that RIGHT after a breakup. You have to give it more time to let your feelings separate or else you're only going to realize that it's as bad as when you were dating, and you're never going to get over him.
So here's what I suggest. Talk to your ex and tell him that what you two are doing right now is not healthy. Tell him you of course wnat to be friendly with him and you certainly don't want any hard feelings but that it's hard to be friends when you still have feelings for him. And tell him you want to commit to this decision. You can still talk to him, just don't do it as much. And you can still hang out but maybe not as often and maybe with more people around. YOu can be friendly without being close friends.
Goodluck!
xoxo
LoLLiPoP
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