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Ok imma young girl who is in love with an older guy and he says he loves me to what do I do? (link)
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Most young women as they grow up are absolutely crazy about older men. They generally go for older men due to issues they had with their father or other adult male family member in their younger life. Be careful that you are not just looking for an older man to fulfill what you unknowingly perceive as a lack of love and stability in your life. You probably feel all safe and secure with him. And that is the feeling that you are longing for. There are better ways to deal with this issue than being with an older man. And by saying all this, I am going on the assumption that the age gap is significant and probably illegal. Get out now. This will only lead to heartbreak. Find someone you know you can trust and is not interested in you for a relationship. Such as a counselor. Just the fact that you are asking for advice on this with the information you have given.....is setting off red flags and alarms and tells me that it is NOT right or ok. And deep down, you know it too!!!
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Wow I never thought of things that way! You give great advice and you really helped me! THANK YOU!
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