My name Is Kittzen, i have a fresh personalty and i never get old on you. i enjoy to have fun and i will love to help you with your life. got any questions for me just ask and i will answer. i have no problem being myself and i love to do anything crazzy and wild but always have time to be serious. don't worry I'll do my best to help you and i will never try to let anyone down. think what you want about me but that doesn't always make you right.don't let these pretty pink words fool yaa, i am no girly girl!
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My boyfriend and I have been dating for over 3 years and he is showing no signs of wanting to get married. I have 2 children from a previous marrage and he has never been married before. We are both 33 years old and we live in Nebraska where people don't generally wait much longer than 2 years. We have had our ups and downs but we do very well with the exception of me wanting to get married and him putting it off. How long should I wait? What do I do now while waiting? (link)
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Enjoy the time you spend together. Everyday moments by themselves whether happy or not can make a relationship stronger and happier. Take baby steps up to getting married; have him move in, or both of you make decisions together about normal things. He might not want to get married right way, because of the fact that the relationship is so great now, but what happens if something ruins it. Over half of all married Americans are devoiced, and what he is probably thinking is that breakups with someone you love is hard, but a thirty-day drawn out divorce is harder. Give it time, if you two are meant to get married that it will happen. But keep in mind you don't need a ring to be happy with him, enjoy the moments you have, and I guarantee those moments will last a life time, whether or not you ever see that ring.
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That is SUPER good advice! Thank you!
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