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a guy i like asked me to go to the movies with him and always picks me up and is so sweet, i do really like him hes perfect, but hes ben a druggie for a few years and finally sobering up. my friends dont like him around, my best friend gravely hates him, and we dodge my mom because hes always smelt of smoke. yet two of my girls who see me with him like him cuz theyv seen his sweet side.
that sounds very harsh but hes sobering up for me, and hes so protective of me so i dont get into drugs and from other guys. he is a pure gentleman, picks me up, tries to pay, holds me like im his world. i always told him i wont kiss a smoker when hed ask tho, iv never kissed him.
yet he picked me up n we went with his friends out to eat one day a while back, he got high and wouldnt drive me home he left to party, i had one of his friends drive me home and we got lost. il never forget that. hes the sweetest guy in the world now though, idc that he was a druggie, but then i look back at it.. i do really like him but should i try and move on? does the good outweigh the bad? does the past matter? am i over reacting? any advice on this topic. 16/f

I used to date a girl with a drug problem. She reeked of smoke all the time, kissing her was like kissing an ashtray, and she wasn't the same person. She stopped taking care of herself, and she was out of it all the time. It wasn't worth it to stay with her just because I loved her before she took up smoking. Smoking made her dull and slow and stupid. I wanted to have a real conversation with her, but she turned into a vapid, empty shell of a human being. Dump this guy. No matter how great he is, wait until after he's sober to pursue anything.

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