Member Since: June 18, 2010
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Ok there are these 2 guys. One is my ex's best friend that I'm not so close with, but I'm getting closer with now, and another is like my best friend and I've known him for a few years, we've been like brother/sister close.
Not too long ago I realized how much I like that guy that I've known for so long. I like him a lott and I'm quite comfortable around him. He lives closer to me than the other guy but I don't hang out with him outside of school. He really makes me feel incredible though.
The other guy I'm talking about lives a little farther but I sneak him over my house every few nights. We are dating right now and we've already had sex a few times. He's been on home detention for a while and he's going to jdc(juvenile detention center) this friday because he failed his drug test. He keeps violating his home detention but is promising he's getting off for me. To get off he'd have to pass his drug test. Marijuana is still in his system. Even when he gets off he's going to get right back into smoking and partying all the time though, I asked him.
Sorry this is long but I've got a little heartache problem.
It's summer break right now and the guy on home detention is the one I'm going to be hanging out with.. and I honestly think I need more time to get comfortable with him.. I don't feel on his level.
I really wish I could see the other guy.. he makes me really happy... He's half puerto rican/half dominican and I'm this little white guy. I'm pretty positive he likes me. I've been told and he acts like it.
What would you do? See if things get better with the guy I'm going out with or wait for school to come along to get closer to the other guy?
I've also done similar things the guy I'm dating has done... and the other guy is so innocent to that stuff. I don't really know what to think. (link)
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I think you should go out with the other guy and leave your boyfriend. So what he made a promise,don't beleive it. Because if he really loved you he wouldn't be asking you to sneak out to see him He would find everyway to see you that doesn't envole trouble for any one plus he wouldn't just say he will stop he would go get help to show you that he cares for you and wants to do better. Go with the other guy and be happy like you deserve. =) No one deserves that type of drama over a guy. So go get you man girl before it's to late
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Thanks. I'm still with my boyfriend and he told me he should be clean and should be getting off home detention soon. I'm just giving everything more time, seeing how things work out.
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