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K so I'm 13, in 7th grade, (girl) and all my friends (girls) are like all prude, but I would like to grind and make out with people that I'm not dating but all my friends would judge me. We have parties all the time so there's a lot of grinding going on. I didn't grind at the last party because my parents were invited but in school today my friend and I were joking around and I ended up in front of him against the wall and he started grinding me without holding my waist and now everyone is making a huge deal out of it and calling me a slut and I feel horrible but I really want to do stuff like grind! Am I being a slut and should I feel bad??? (link)
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Ask yourself, was it ok that your friend started grinding on you in the hallway? You need to have boundaries of your personal space and your body. It is not ok to have a guy 'grind' on you at school. While it may all seem ok right now because its only grinding you are sending the message that you are willing to do what the boy wants. You starting to have the normal teen hormones but you need to learn that while it feels good it means so much more. You can take care of your needs when you are alone.
Its not being a prude by not grinding its about having self respect.
If it not something you would do in front of your parents then it really isn't something you should be doing when they aren't around.
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Wow! That is the best advice I ever got! Seriously I feel so much better now about not wanting to do those things. I was feeling so bad about it I was going to have sex with him since everyone said we already did but now you changed my mind. THANK YOU!
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