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Name is Layne, age is 17, occupation is babysitter. still answering questions on here even after 3 years is awesome, right? no, just proves i don't have a life. so. if you have a question, feel free to ask it on here or you can IM me on my screenname. i can answer most questions about the categories i have listed. i don't know much about sickness or physical health, or stuff to wear when your husband just died but the man who killed him, whom you're having an affair with, is going to be at the funeral. :) have a wonderful day.
Gender: Female
Location: Nashville
Occupation: Chimney sweep
Age: 17
AIM: laynemayhem15
Member Since: November 19, 2007
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My boyfriend says we have a normal relationship. I try to tell him it's not. He expects me to tell him everyone I pass in the hall way at work, what they say and send him pictures. If they come in my office he says they only made an excuse to come and see me that things should be controlled differently and men should not be able to just walk in my office. He takes these things out on me as well. Last Friday my boss called me in his office because he was about to leave for the day. When the boyfriend called I wasn't at my desk. he called and left vmails that were rude and ugly and when i called him back and explained he Said "you were in the office w/ 2 men?" "What else happened" Would you feel as if he is suggesting that something un professional could have happened by saying something like that? I'm at wits end and he seems to think he is doing no wrong. He says he has the right to know who I talk to and what is said and where I am and thinks if I have a problem w/ it then I have something to hide. (link)
uh, no. this is REALLY not normal. its good you know this isn't normal. he does not have a right to know who you talk to and pass in the hallway. you shouldnt have to tell him any of this. if you dont break it off soon, it could turn really ugly. what i would do is cut off all contact possible. or dump him. if he gets upset about it and maybe a little violent, stay at a close friend's house for a while, and tell the people at your work so if he shows up there they'll take care of him.

take care, and please be careful. if he does physically hurt you, call the police. it may be hard since you might like him a lot, but its for the better, trust me.


Rating: 5
Thank you very much! I am leaving him.




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