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HEYYY :D i'm in college and i'm a psychology major. i've had many experiences with boyfriends, crushes, friends and family. i know quite alot about sex and sex related issues, so feel free to ask me anything about that! i will be completely honest because i would want the same in return.

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I've been with my boyfriend for three years. We are absolutely in love with each other, but of course I've got a couple of complaints. He's not romantic, at all. I've asked him to take me on dates, or go do something romantic for a day, and eventually he may take me on a date (after me repeatedly asking and basically planning it). But he has never done anything like that without me asking. I can live with him not being romantic, but I think every girl dreams of a little romance in their relationship. How should I handle this?

Guys are simple creatures, lol. For right now, you're going to have to ask him to do those kind of things. Let him know how much you want to go on a nice date, and tell him it doesn't have to be all romantic, just a chance for the two of you to be together alone and have fun. Once you do go out on the date, let him know how much fun you're having. Be nice, sweet, flirty and show him that him agreeing to the date was a great idea. Once he sees how happy it makes you, AND how nice you're being to him, it'll connect in his head and he'll realize. It's positive reinforcement. He'll want the same good feelings and good time to repeat itself, so those dates you want to go on will continue. Good luck!

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(Rating: 5) Hahaha so it's like giving a dog a treat when he rolls over. That actually makes sense. :D
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