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17 f. Hey guys so. Me and my best friend we go to a different high school and every since we were in the 6th grade we vowed to go together to prom. So I had this BF who I really cared about and he happens to go to her school. He said he was going to take me. We had everything set when we got into this huge fight and he said a lot of hurt things to me. Like Ex. "I was always embarrased to be seen by you" "you're a who*re " and a lot of other things. So basically he also told me that he wasn't going to take me to prom he was going to take another girl. And he said "I bet you're going to look ridiculous that day" so now I don't know if I should go to their prom. My friend already got me someone to take me and everything. I kind of want to go to show him what he lost. And that day I'm planning on looking gorgeous. He knew how important it was for me and my bff to go together. I even offerd to buy a ticket from him but he said he doesn't wanna help me out and doesn't care. I wanna go to show him that I didn't need him to take me to prom I went without his help. But at the same time I also don't want to becuase I'm thinking he's not worth it. But I feel like I NEED to go becuase then he will be thinking that it was becuase of him that I didn't go. Plus I need to show him how well I can clean up. Haha. So advice? Should I go or not? Wat would you have done? I'm so lost. -michelle , MN

I think you should go and have an amazing time with your best friend. Forget your boyfriend, he's a jerk. Go and show him what he lost!!!

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