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Well...my best friend and I have been bests for years but lately things have changed. Since she has gone out with this weird emo guy and I found out she hadn't been a virgin for the last few years I have been a bit twitchy towards it.
But now, I have found that I don't want to be around her. When she comes up to me...I feel annoyed. When she tries to talk to me all the time, i don't want to say anything. Can somebody explain why this is happening because I have no idea why i don't want anything to do with her.
I thought it might be because she is clingy. Rings up every weekend and tries to wait for me after every class in school. Could this be the reason but it doesn't seem big enough to inflict what i feel on our relationship..
HELP!!!!! (link)
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Maybe you just dont feel comfortable around her anymore because you feel she's changed as a person and isnt the same person you were friends with before and thats a big enough reason to affect your friendship i think if you dont like being around her and dont like talking to her you should tell her in a nice honest way that you just cant be friends with her because you just dont feel comfortable around her and you just dont think you have anything in common or that shes just not the same i think if you tell her nicely she will understand and who knows maybe you can go from being best friends to just school peer type friends who just say hi and talk once in awhile.
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Well...it has transpired. I arranged a venue for us to talk and she ditched so I told her that being best friends is out of the question and that I won't be rude but I don't want anything to do with her anymore...But without your advice, i was leaning towards going off tap at her...BAHAHA
Thankyouuu :)
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