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So my best friend Laura has been getting really really close with her boyfriend lately. So close, that unfortunately I feel like she's been shutting me out. =(

We'll make plans with each other, like to meet up somewhere. But usually what happens is that I'll text her saying like "I'm here. Where are you?" and she'll text back "Oh sorry, I went out to breakfast/lunch/dinner/whatever with John. I'll meet you in like half an hour"

It's other stuff too, like the three of us will be walking in the hallway, and then it'll be time for John to go away because Laura and I walk to class together, but lately she just branches off with John and says to me "I'll see you there, kay?" Like no..it's not 'kay'.
When all of us (and I mean our entire group of friends) sits together at lunch, those two will be at the end of the table, ignoring everyone else. It gets on my nerves. It's like everything not having to do with John has become way less important to Laura.

=( I don't mean to come off as like a controlling bitch, it's just that me and her have been inseparable since like fifth grade, and now she keeps blowing me off. I'm feeling more and more shut out from her John world. (link)
When you get your 1st real boyfriend you will understand. dont be to hard on her she will get over this stage and see what she is doing. maybe try to hang out with othere friends for awhile and allow her to do her own thing. Then you both will have something to do and be happy.


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Don't assume that I've never had a boyfriend before. K thanks.




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