Hey I may be young but have a lot of life experience. I am not judgmental, but will tell you my opinion. For the past few months I have been using the account youareneveralone because this one had not been working...hopefully the problem is solved. Anyway I love to help people so please ask me whatever you need.
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Hi i'm 25/m and I have an amazing gf I have been with almost 3 years. I love her very dearly and am ready to marry her. Only problem is I tend to screw things up by talking to other girls behind her back. I don't try to flirt but I guess I get creepy. I then lie to her about things cause i'm scared to lose her. Can anyone please help me figure out why I do this and how I can stop doing it. After the last time I could never do it again but she doesn't trust me as she shouldn't. I am willing to do anything it takes to fix my life. I have even started contacting psychologists. (link)
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Well some guys I know sound like they have the same problem as you. Its not that they are trying purposely to hit on other women, or cheat on their girlfriends they just don't know how to talk to girls with out flirting. Its all they have ever known when it comes to communicating with the other sex. And yes they too have screwed a lot of things up usually unintentionally. What I personally think you should do is really try and cut women whom you are not really good friends with out of your life. Avoid extensive talks with women you meet, don't be rude, but don't talk enough that it may lead you to trouble. Also with the girls you still talk to you really need to make a conscious effort to think before you speak. If all else fails and you feel you need to see a psychologist go for it. Also have you talked to your girlfriend about this problem. I don't know you but you seem very sincere, perhaps with her support this will be easier for you. I hope I was able to help!
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Thanks so much. That was a very good response. I just hope she gives me a last chance to. I know she the one.
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