My name is CC well that my nickname. I am in my mid 20's and i have been though so much in my short life marriage, divorce, taking care of a child, moving, dropping out of school, doing drugs, living with family that use bad drugs, jail, boyfriend hitting you, and the list keeps going but the one thing that is different from me and most people is they don't no how to get past it or get to the point were it dose not bother them, and that's why i am here to help you because the things i have been though i have come out strong and there are a lot of you that are going though them now and want help and you no as well as anyone else you can't take advice from someone who has never been there because they don't no what it feels like
Gender: Female
Location: nebraska
Member Since: April 15, 2010
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Hey! I have this really weird problem. Okay well there's this guy that sits at my lunch table with me and my friends and nobody really likes him but were nice to him because we really don't want to hurt his feelings. Well he knows the subdivision that I live in so he found my house last night and came over. Since then he's been ringing the doorbell non-stop and wont leave me alone. I already came out once to talk to him but I've been having my sister answer the door for the past 5 times he's comes over. I feel like he's stalking me because he's been giving me his phone number, address, and wont stop coming over when I'm 'gone'. I just want him to leave me alone, but I don't have the heart to tell him 'to go away'. I'm a nice person and I don't want to hurt his feelings, but I'm really scared! If I tell my dad what he's doing then somehow my dad will blame it all on ME! Do you know a way to make him stop coming over without being mean? Please help! (link)
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there reason he is most likely doing this is because he is lonely if he has no other friends and you are being nice to him it most likely his way of reaching out and trying to be your friend and he dose not see that he is coming on to strong the next time he comes over go outside and and talk to him and say "hey i no you wanna be my friend and that's fine we can be friends but you have got to stop coming over all the time because you are making your self look like a crazy person and am sorry to sound so harsh but you are" and see what he says sometime all it take is for someone to tell you how your acting for you to see it a lot of the time people are just blinded to that kinda stuff. now if you don't want to be friends with him then you need to tell him that as well, but you hiding from him is not gonna do anything he will keep coming around because in his eyes he is not doing anything wrong. i hope that helps and wish you the best of luck cc
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my parents called the police and that pretty much took care of it. thank you!
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