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Q: okay, heres the story. i was going out with this guy for well over a year, he didnt put any effort into seeing me though and he hardly talked. he would be rude to me and treat me like shit. when we were together we'd have the best time though. a few days ago i told him i just wanted to stay friends with him. we both cried a little but he didnt say anything. nothing at all. when i asked what he thought he'd just say 'nothing really' or 'just wondering why you're crying'. the other day i spoke to his friend, he said 'i heard you and sam broke up' when i asked how sam was doing his friend replied with 'yeah he seems good, he says its better you are friends'. i want to know why sam cant tell me that though. he just says he doesnt really know. if he likes it better just as friends why wont he tell me! its driving me insane not knowing what he wants or thinks :( i talked to him again today, he was a bit rude to me. its like he suddenly doesnt give a fuck about me, i know i dumped him but if he's got a problem with just being friends why cant he say? i just need some ideas of what people think is going on.
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Hi,
I hate to say this but I think that the better question is? Why are you concerned with a guy who you admit treats you horribly. Why do you care now, if he still doesn't care about you now that you're friends. This guy needs to be eradicated from your thoughts. Move on, don't give him the satisfaction of wasting your time wondering about it. Any guy who's playing mind games isn't worth trying to figure out.
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I'm Celeste. I'm really good at helping people and I give great advice. Otherwise I wouldn't be here.
So if you need any help, just ask. If you wouldn't like to post your question here. Contact me with your question by email. I'm always checking my email so I'll be sure to get back to you. I'm very serious about the advice I give. I abhor people who give random unhelpful responses. So if you ask me a question I'll be sure to give you an answer that's relevant.
-Celeste-
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E-mail: Gender: Female Location: California Occupation: Student Age: 19 Member Since: April 28, 2008 Answers: 86 Last Update: April 16, 2010 Visitors: 8112
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