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I have a new girlfriend like im kinda scared cause my ex told me she loved me b4 and she will never cheat on me but she did so like its very hard 4 me to trust my new girlfriend because of what happened with my ex but i really really love my new girlfriend but i always question her about like do she like dis or that boy or is she doing something she doesnt suppose to(cheating) and i really dont like her to go out cause i think she would cheat on me and then it scares me cause like she is not a virgin and her cousin is like always trying to make her do stuff like drink and i dont like her to drink cause who knows what would she do when shes drunk what if she sleep with another guy :( so she stopped i really love her i just really want to trust her so bad and she knows i dont trust her and it hurts her :( please help i would be so greatful (link)
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I know its going to be hard to trust her but eventually your going to have i mean you cant go through life not trusting someone important in your life because thats unhealthy so i guess the best way to go about it would be to just sit her down and tell her that you really love her and it would hurt you if she ever cheated on you and that if she is into someone else she should just tell you now and if shes not then have her promise she wont cheat on you ever and that your only saying this to make yourself feel better and to be able to keep the trust and love between you both.I know it seems cheesy and all but i think this would be the best way to go about it because this way you will trust her a little and whenever you feel like shes doing something like cheating just look back to the promise she made and how shes always treated you maybe that will make you feel better. And if none of this works maybe you need to be single for a little bit and just get through the whole trust issue thing which is totally k to do because it will let you have healthier and better relationships in the future. I hope i helped good luck :D
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