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Hey okay so lately ive been so confused..
Ive been going out with my bf about 5 almost 6months now and lately I just don't feel bothered anymore.
Its like I get a text and im like ugh" or "meh"
I hate feeling like this I really do and I don't know what brought it on.
Like when we text i feel really disinterested but when I see him its different its like I forget all about it?
Hes the sweetest guy ive ever gone out with yet at the moment I seem to be pushing him away and closing myself off!
He sugested taking my shopping and then to dinner after last night and its almost like im feeling mad at him for being so nice to me..
I know if I break up with him il be throwing away one of the best things to ever happen to me but I don't know how to stop feeling like this? :(
Also things are really bad with my guy best friend..
we have barely been talking and its killing me.
He gets on well with my bf so I know its not that he doesnt like him or anything like that.
but its like whenever we text hes seems so disinterested and im dragging a convo out of him..
im always the one to initiate convos and it seems im making all the effort its really upsetting me I miss him so much..
I said it to him last night I asked him did I do anything to upset him and he said no of course not.
So I asked him straight out whats going on things aren't the same.
So then he said it was me the one who was talking less(which isnt true because ive been the one trying)he said things have changed since I started dating my bf and then said id changed.
that killed me.
He started going on about growing up and things changing and maturity..
Ugh. sorry if this seems like one big long mumble.
basicly ive two problems and ive no idea what to do about either
I miss my bestfriend ive told him it seems like he wants to move on and just forget our friendship (thats the vibe I got) but I can't do that ive known him since I was 6.
Then my bf...My feelings are all over the place at the moment does anyone have annnyy advice or has been in this sort of situation? :S
any advice apreciated
sorry this is long! (link)
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Well this is really a hard situation and i think the best thing to do is break up with your bf if the interest and feelings just arent there because its almost like punishing yourself by being with someone who just isnt the one you know and i know its gonna feel all sucky because your getting rid of this guy who seems really sweet and all but i mean would you rather have a bf who you truly want to spend time with and who you get totally excited and happy around and if that isnt happening with this guy then move on and as for your best friend maybe after the breakup if you decide to can just sit down and talk about whats going on and just clear things up and continue your friendship and if he feels its you who needs to change then make the small changes and keep the friendship going because it would suck to throw away such a long and good friendship. I hope i helped good luck :D
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hey thank you so much you put this into perspective for me =) alot of people tell my bestfriend is distant because he used to have feelings for me that I know so I think maybe its that..its gonna be really hard but I know I have to do it.. thanks again =]
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