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17/f.
There's this guy whom I've known since 8th grade. We are really close, but no one really knows because we primarily talk online since we never see each other in school. He used to like me for a long time in 8th grade, but I didn't like him like that, but we've stayed really close friends.
For years though, we've been playing the question game, and it's gotten really intense. I've never thought of it as more than a game since we've never done anything in person or via webcam / pictures. I think I may have recently developed a tiny crush on him though, and this is bad for a couple reasons.
1. We are going to be hanging out this upcoming weekend and I don't want my hormones to get the best of me and end up getting hurt. (I've never had a boyfriend or done anything, not even first kiss, so I'm very vulnerable.) At the same time, I want to get hurt and get it out of my system.
2. We're going to prom together.
We've both admitted, in so many words, that we would like something to happen, but I feel like it's wrong to hook up without a relationship. He definitely does not have feelings for me, and he's not a shallow guy. We're both just hormonal teenagers, you know?
What is your opinion? I'm just very confused. I THINK I like him but I'm afraid of getting into a relationship with him and ruining absolutely positively everything we've built up. I don't want it to become awkward when we hang out or on prom night, so is there anything I can do to prevent awkwardness when we see each other in person? Should I not go past first base on either night? I'm just so confused about how I feel about him and what I want / don't want to happen! :( And I don't want to tell him I like him because he's gotten hurt loads of times before and he has no idea I might have feelings for him. (link)
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Well i guess you could hook up just to see what its like but i think you should talk to him before and tell him that you wanna be friends even if things dont work out and i guess mention that you just want to try hooking up but if things dont work out you guys can just go back to being friends. Good luck i hope this helped :D
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ok, please edit your answer - would it just be ok to hook up once though, just for fun? i appreciate your honest feedback! please let me know what you think. i don't think it would end up becoming awkward between us, but i also don't exactly want to become friends with benefits
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