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18/f

okay so this has really been bugging me and i was hoping you guys could give me some insight. not trying to sound conceited at ALL, just what i've heard .. alot of guys think i'm this hot girl and i am confident but i'm not a slut. i don't sleep around, still a virgin but why is it that guys with girlfriends ALWAYS try to talk and get with me? i don't understand!! do they think i'll cheat with them on their girlfriends or what? why me? it always happens to me, always. i'm just concerned i have something about me saying "i'll sleep with you even if you have a girlfriend" which is obviously not the case, and i haven't given anyone a reason to think that but i think it's ironic how guys who have girlfriends are always trying to get with me... why??

congrats. I'm 17 and I sorta have the same problem as you. except for me its like this, i have a boyfriend. and all my guy friends try to get with me and try to steal me from my boyfriend. It's so stupid because I'm not into sex. I've never done it and i probably won't until college or marriage. so good job for you that you don't want to do that stuff. I'm confused as well as why guys do this. It's not like we are sending out a message that says we are easy.. I"m pretty shy too. Like i'm not sending out any sort of vibe that says "hey guys, come and get it." ya know?

I'm pretty sure its just because guys are guys. they will do anything to get a girl. They're desperate. not all guys are like this. but most of them are. they're just jerks. That's why its so hard to find the perfect guy for you.

You really just need to tell those guys to f*** off because they're not your type and you're not like that and you deserve better. Just keep acting like yourself. There's not much you can really do that will "repel" guys. unless you complete change yourself. which I don't know why you would want to do that..

so just keep acting like yourself and if a guy comes along and tries to get with you, just tell him to go get a life and find another girl to screw with. because you're better than that.

Hope I helped!

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