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I recently had sex for the first time with my boyfriend who I like a whole hell of a lot. I used to want to be with him all of the time and think of him all of the time. After we had sex, the only thing I think about IS him, but it's thoughts of whether or not I should've done it. I feel like I'm less attracted to him, but I don't want to be. Is this just a phase? Are these the thoughts that might usually follow after having sex? I'm worried that my feelings are disappearing and I don't want them to. I also have thoughts that I probably shouldn't have done it, just because I feel less innocent than I have before, but I don't really regret it. What's wrong with me?

You just feel guilty, which is a totally normal feeling to have after you lose your virginity, and you could be pushing your boyfriend away because he reminds you of this guilt. Spend some more time together before you decide to have sex again, and the guilt will subside.

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(Rating: 5) thanks, maybe I am just feeling really guilty. :/
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