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i went on a date with a guy i really like today. he was so sweet to me and kept putting his arms around me and holding me and stuff. he asked me what i would say if he asked me out, and like last time i responded by bein so sorry saying idk if im ready and i get so unsure. i kissed him today and he flipped out so happily and his face was so red i couldnt calm him down..
a reason may be hes never had a girlfriend, is younger, and i just got out of one of over a year relationship, over a month ago by my ex cheating on me but im over him.. i really like this guy but i have not a clue whats holding me back.. what could it be? also is it bad that i like him so much but i wont go out yet?
Hi there,
Well the first thing that popped into my head when reading about your situation is maybe you're still hung up on what happened with your ex. I understand that you're over your ex and that's great. However, even though you're over him you might NOT be over what had actually happened (him cheating on you). In relation to the new guy, maybe you're a little worried that something similar might happen again. If not, maybe since your ex cheated on you it kind of left you feeling a little uncomfortable about getting into the whole dating scene.
As for your other question, it's not a bad thing that you don't want to start dating him yet. Ultimately it's your decision whether or not you're ready to date. It would be better for you to do this ONLY when you're ready for it. Otherwise, you might actually cause yourself some problems if you force yourself to date the guy.
It seems like you really like this guy and from what you've said about him, he seems like a good guy. So I hope everything works out. Don't stress, you'll be fine. :)
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