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21/f

This is a really weird question, I know, and you're probably going to think I'm making a big deal over nothing. I was going out with this guy in a band, and we broke up in December. It was a bad break up and he was really bad to me. Anyway, in the time we went out (3 months) I became fairly good friends with the other two in the band. One in particular I really liked. I recently found out this one has left the band, and from what it sounds like it was under pretty bad circumstances. Anyway I recently found him on Facebook, and I really want to add him. However, I'm not sure if this would be weird? I really liked him and enjoyed speaking to him (as a friend) We go to the same college too, but I haven't seen him around. I haven't seen him since my ex and I broke up. I know it's only Facebook, and people add each other all the time there. I just don't want to make him uncomfortable and I can't decide.

So to add or not add? Thanks (link)
If you had sex with the ex boyfriend, and then broke up with him it is to the equivalence of firing somebody from a company. Therefore if you want anything to do with a future between you, and an honorable gentleman then you better not even think about adding him.



Rating: 5
I probably should've specified: no we didn't have sex. But thanks anyway.




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