I am totally honest i tell it like it is and if you dont like it im sorry but im not going to sugar coat answers to make you feel better i want to tell people the truth and tell them what i think is right so if you find that what i say is mean or not helpful just give me a low rating and move on but please dont be rude after all i did answer you question even if its not what you wanna hear just take the time to appreciate. Feel free to message me thank you :) (L)
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Last week I ended things with my boyfriend of over a year because niether of us were happy. We've been on and off the past four months and it just got to be too much drama, and I decided it was best to end things before they got SUPER ugly.
Before I ever considered ending things with my bf, I became friends with another guy through work. Between meeting him and now we've gotten to know each other, and he's really nice, super cute, and understanding enough not to try to make a move on me now that I'm newly single.
But for the past 5 days or so we've been flirting through texts CONSTANTLY. to the point of where just hearing my phone buzz with a message makes me giggle or bury my face into my pillow, grinning. I havent forgotten about my ex and I'm not hanging out with this new guy really yet because I want to give myself time. But this doesn't feel like something I'm doing just to get over my ex.. this new guy really makes me happy. My friends are telling me it's a rebound and that I really don't have feelings for him, but I was even flirting with him before I ended things with my ex...
How do I know if my feelings are real? Honestly this is the first time I've felt this happy in a long time.. (link)
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You'll know your feelings are true when you want to talk to him all the time and when you truly happy with him like you said this is the first time in a long time you have felt happy and thats enough to know your feelings for him are real. Don't listen to your friends you know whats best and whats true not your friends so just keep seeing this guy and live your life because it seems like you like him and he likes you and thats all that matters and nobody else should be interfering. Basically just follow your heart. :D
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Rating: 5
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thanks! This actually made me feel really good about what I'm doing :)
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