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Jesus Christ.
No, it is NOTHING to be ashamed of. Although it may seem like it, you can't put a date on relationships, can't assign a "DO _____ by age ___" type thing or you will just screw yourself over. Don't rush yourself into something JUST because you haven't done it yet and everyone else is. The only reason it even seems important to do is the media; according to the media, sex/partying/kissing/making out/etc is something EVERYONE does. So if you don't, you're not cool, you don't fit in, etc. DON'T BUY INTO THIS. This is a load of horseshit.
Just wait until you get a boyfriend/girlfriend, someone you actually LIKE and want to go out with. And then you'll get your long-awaited first kiss. And it'll actually be special.
However, I honestly don't know why girls make such a big deal out of the first kiss in the first place. I mean, true, it may be something you'll remember in the future since it's the FIRST, but it's really not a big deal. For me (I was 17), it just happened. And then it was over. The end. My world didn't change. I didn't become a cooler, different person. So why worry about it?
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People make fun of you over this? UGH teenagers. Hopefully, they'll grow out of that.
It's best to just ignore them. Don't let the stupid shit they say pressure you. I've been there, and it's NOT that bad. Yes, you may be left out of several dating/kissing/etc conversations, you may have to take shit about it from some idiots, but in the long run, you win. Really.
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