Hi there.. My name is Kirsten.. I'm 21, I live in a small country town in South Australia, Australia. I love life, I love giving advice to anyone who needs it. I have a boyfriend of 5 years and were very much in lurrve ;) Feel free to ask me anything guys and gals.. thats what i'm here for. If I don't know the answer to your questions i'll try my best to give you what I know.. Have fun, live life to the fullest and ask away... ;) xoxo
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Hi,
Long story short.. my parents are divorced, I live with my mom whom I do not get along with. I would rather live by myself (not with my dad cuz that would create more conflict with my mom), but just in my own house with myself. I have had kidney failure my whole life so I have to visit the doctor a fair bit.
I've had my share of bad days. I only ever had one true friend.. that ended up using me for my brother. My mom likes this betrayer more than me and she treats my younger sister as the daughter she never had. (theres only two girls, my younger sister and I).
I am in grade 12 and I am trying so hard to make it through my classes and my life, but with all the stress of my mom, my older asshole brother, my cheeky younger sister, no friends (except for the 'one' who sleeps with my bro every weekend when he comes home), I don't have anything to hold onto. I just want to get through this year without killing myself (not literally, but inside) and being able to know that when I get on the other side, something greater will be waiting.. and maybe it won't hurt just to touch it.
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Hello there,
I don't really have a lot of advice on how to fix your situation but I can tell you this..
Life is how you make it! You control what happens in your life and the outcome (good or bad) is because of your choices. I know that you said moving in with your dad will cause conflict with your mum, but if you feel like you don't 'fit in' then think of yourself.
It's not selfish to want to be happy!
You seem like you've got the right idea with your studies and being in year 12, added stressors are the last thing you need. Move in with your dad! Just as a trial basis even!
As for the friends issue, again, life is how you make it! For every person in the world, there is someone! Whether that be a friend, boyfriend/girlfriend, relative! Go out and find friends, those people might not realise the hurt you have inside, they aren't mind readers. I am sure there are thousands of others out there who wish they had a friend too. Go find one!
Good luck! Hope everything works out for the best!
Roxy :D
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You are right about friends are everywhere, I just know they aren't close to my home.. have to start some serious searching! :p And the search is on.. Again. Thanks for the advice :)
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