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THIS IS NOT NORMAL HIGH SCHOOL DRAMA. I'M BEGGING YOU TO READ THE WHOLE THING. PLEASE.
16/F
There's this guy at my school that has been literally obsessed with me for like two years.
He texts me constantly, and I used to text him back and we'd have these really cool intense conversations.
But then it got a little scary. About two months ago, he began to text me every single day like once every thirty minutes until I answered him back. And I'd have to answer him back, because if I didn't, he'd come up to me the next day at school and corner me at my locker and ask me to explain why I didn't answer him back. And he just would have this puppy dog look in his eyes, so he looked non-threatening, but he'd also be blocking my way out with his arms.
He's constantly leaving notes in my locker and on my desk in homeroom about how we're going to spend the rest of our lives together and have a bunch of kids. We are not dating.
I've told one of my friends about it, but it's embarrassing because I don't know what to do. Plus, he keeps telling me in every note not to tell anyone because they'll make fun of our "love" and he doesn't like it when people make fun of him.
This note thing has been going on for almost a month. And if he sees me flirting with a guy in the hall, he just gives me this look and then he'll corner me after school again. I'm allowed to flirt though, aren't I?? Well I can't anymore and I've stopped.
The puppy dog look has left his eyes by now.
And the reason why I've finally gotten up the courage to write this is because I'm all out of ideas. My friend that I told doesn't know what to do about it and she isn't really taking it seriously. And I'm too scared to go tell the guidance counselor about it because I'm pretty sure he'd find out somehow. (He tends to follow me around school). But the thing is that sent me over the edge is that he called me last night after school (today is Saturday), and his speech was slurred so I'm guessing he'd been drinking, but he said that he was planning on killing himself soon unless I:
1) stop flirting with other guys
2) stop talking to other people when he's around
3) have sex with him soon
He's crazy, right? What to I do? I was so scared last night that he was going to come over my house. I locked all the doors and I slept in my brother's room.
I don't want him to kill himself, obviously, but I also want him to leave me alone. I'm scared also too that with everything else that's going on (the notes about how we're going to be together forever) that if he does choose to kill himself, he's going to take me with him.
Please help, I'm so scared right now. (link)
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Good HTML skills first of all : D
I got no time to format.
And this guy isn't going to kill himself, and even if he does problem solved. You must understand that's his problem. That's over there, and you're over here. You don't want to be over there with that asshole, because somebody like him could get someone hurt.
Now allow yourself to be harshly introduced to the fact that life sucks. You have a sincere problem where this guy is handling his problem with you by one of two means: civilly or uncivilly, and it's obvious which route he has chosen to go.
In any uncivil situation you must realize that you're not only protecting your physical well being, but also your criminal background.
You don't want to learn why life sucks when it comes to the law, and how even a criminal can in a downward spirally way use it to fuck you over badly, so I wouldn't hesitate to take this matter to the police or at least your parents who should have much better leverage over the situation.
This isn't uncommon by the way.
May this be a lesson for you in the necessity of practicing self defense.
your comment
"Okay. 1) "Good HTML skills first of all"...are you mocking me? I didn't format the question at all and I don't understand what the hell you are talking about. 2) "And this guy isn't going to kill himself, and even if he does problem solved". You are a horrible, heartless human being. 3) "Now allow yourself to be harshly introduced" "You must learn" etc, etc. Thank you for the harshness? Again, heartless advice. 4) May this be a lesson for you in the necessity of practicing self defense". I'm sorry, are you actually blaming ME?? You are terrible and mean, and I advise you never to advise another human being. Or if you do want to advise them for some ungodly reason, try having a little more tact in your responses. You're terrible.
My Response:
You simply just can't handle the truth, and sorry that I didn't tell you what you wanted to hear.
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Okay. 1) "Good HTML skills first of all"...are you mocking me? I didn't format the question at all and I don't understand what the hell you are talking about. 2) "And this guy isn't going to kill himself, and even if he does problem solved". You are a horrible, heartless human being. 3) "Now allow yourself to be harshly introduced" "You must learn" etc, etc. Thank you for the harshness? Again, heartless advice. 4) May this be a lesson for you in the necessity of practicing self defense". I'm sorry, are you actually blaming ME?? You are terrible and mean, and I advise you never to advise another human being. Or if you do want to advise them for some ungodly reason, try having a little more tact in your responses. You're terrible.
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