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What am i supposed do??
My Boyfriend bought plane tickets. And didn't check with my work first. I have most of the days off. Except 2 which one can good chances be worked by some one else. But the other one can't I don't think.

If i don't go on the trip. He(bf) will be furious. Because he spent all this money. And He doesn't want to go alone.

IF I do, My work will prob fire me for not showing up on a shift i can't get out of.

That is why i wanted to give my two weeks.
But my parents are stressing about giving two weeks when i don't have a replacement job. Although i am sending resume's out every day.
I haven't told them that I'm going on this trip yet. Because they will conect the dots.
Trip=Quiting job to go on trip. But that isn't nescisarily true. I dispize this job alot.

What can i say to them to make them understand that This is my choice.

I am so confused!!! I need help pleaseee!

Just go and talk to your boss/manager. I've been in a situation similar to this and generally your manager will be human about it and give you the day off. If they seem angry about it and tell you that you have to work, then quit. If you don't like the job and it's making you miserable then why suffer? Even though finding another job might be hard in this economy, try not to stress yourself out too much. I hope this helps.

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(Rating: 5) thank you that was very help ful :):)
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